Have you been in a scenario wherein
you feel like the whole universe conspires just to make you realize something
that everything is falling at the right time at the right place or if there is
something comes up and hinders you to a decision you are up to make? I can say,
four years ago, this happened to me. In a world being dominated by extroverts,
can you imagine how an introvert like me managed to survive those four,
dreadful years? I hated speaking in front of a lot of people, working in a
chaotic place and being in the center of attention. But how I could escape all
of those if I was elected as the president of our organization?
From being the auditor of the
organization, I became the president of one of the biggest academic
organizations in the university. To be honest, it wasn’t easy. I preferred
doing all the paper work more than delivering a speech, facilitating room to
room activities or attending training camps with different student leaders
within or outside the university because socializing wasn’t my cup of tea. But
everything changed after I became president. I became someone I never thought I
would become. I became aware of my actions and I would think twice before I
utter or make a comment about something. I made myself more approachable to others
by smiling to people I don’t even know then making my introductions afterwards.
I thought I could keep up to this unfamiliar world, but I was wrong.
Rough days came like a wind and I felt
like my world was crashing on me. I felt so alone in a battle to make my
organization better and stronger. The soldiers that should’ve fought along with
me was slowly losing the will and I felt like I was the only one keeping the
burning desire alive. I had no one to rely on. My organization was taking too
much of my time and I tend to forget that I was a student-leader-- I had to be
a student first before being a leader. There were times when my professor
called my attention in class, questioning me and my position. He looked at me
as if I am a failure and my classmates laughed at me as if I wasn’t doing good
enough.
Also, during those days, my
insecurities would kick in. I questioned myself if I could make it and if I
deserved to be the president of my organization. But despite everything, I kept
moving forward. However, there were also times that I would feel tired of
motivating myself and pretend that everything is okay. I felt like whatever
action I made wouldn’t make sense any more. I felt drained by that thought and
I lost my will to do what I dreamed and wished for. Months after I was elected,
I decided to leave my post because I wasn’t not good enough. I told myself,
I’ll let the vice president of internal affairs take over my position.
I could still recall what exactly
happened when I decided to write my resignation letter. I stared at my laptop
for hours before actually starting it. In a way, I was skeptical to resign
because I still believed I could do something more than anybody else. But at
the same time, I was afraid that I am not being good enough. Moreover, I wasn’t
sure what would be the future of my organization. I had plenty of plans that
wouldn’t be implemented if I leave my post. But something happened after I
finished my resignation letter. My laptop screen went black without a warning.
I was 100% sure that my laptop was charged enough or at least enough for me to
save the document. But it did not happen on my case. When I opened my laptop, I
found out that the document wasn’t even recovered. Then I asked myself that
night, was it a sign? Was it His intervention to make me realize that I should
stop on doing what I was planning to do? Was it His sign to tell me to keep
moving forward and do not give up? Days after that night, everything became
clearer to me.
I listened to what my inner self is
saying that it was His intervention. It was His way on telling me that it is
okay to fail to the point that you cannot do anything right and your plan
didn’t work out as planned. I also realized that it’s okay to cry, especially
when people are judging you without having the chance to actually know you or
when people you trust the most would turn their backs on you. But never, ever
give up or lose hope and guts to change things and start over because not all
things come easy.
A year after that, something bigger
was in store for me. I was elected as Vice President for External Affairs for
Supreme Student Council. I was elected not just by my organization, but by the
whole student body. Until now, I still ponder what had happened to me. I
learned that we have to trust and believe in our self because trusting our self
is like trusting God and His plan.
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